Instead of judging people, try to be a little nice.
If you are blessed with things others don’t possess, that doesn’t mean you get to have the upper hand.
If you have more money and you can afford things some people can’t; it doesn’t mean you have the right to gloat about it.
If you are blessed with a perfect body as compared to your fellowmen, it doesn’t give you any right to bully someone else for their ‘type of body.‘
If you are at a higher post, and you think it is part of your job to be mean and bossy so you can keep people in line. Well, there is a difference in being authoritative and a jerk. Learn to differentiate.
There are million examples, where people think they are better than their fellowmen but they can’t be any more wrong.
If you are blessed with something, be thankful and stay down to earth. Believe me, that will be gain you more respect than being a tormentor and a jerk.
Being proud and being shy can never come on the same level. Sometimes, people mistake one trait for another.
Let me tell you some differences between the two.
Proud people look down to you, shy people can’t even look up. 😉 Well, they can but they have trouble making eye contact. Some proud people make you feel bad about yourself. Shy people, well, they mostly turn out to make a fool of their own selves or stay in the background.