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A Plea…

Published May 9, 2018 by aak92

I know I am not the only one, still we are not enough. 

I have a wish, a request, probably a long-sighted dream. It saddens me to see our people filled with so much hate for each other. We can’t be born with this!

Babies are a gift from heaven and heaven is a no place for hate or anything dark. None of us are born with hate in their hearts or hate for their fellow beings. It is something that is drilled into us. 

Hate is not the first feeling we encounter, whereas love comes naturally and is there from the very beginning. 

I am not talking about some crazy love or even romantic kind, I am talking about the deep, pure one. The kind of love that makes you put others first, the kind that compels you to be respective and caring towards everyone despite of their status, color, religion, age or background. 

We should not hold others’ differences against them. We should try not to hold any grudges against anyone. No one is perfect; after all we are humans, we are not supposed to be.

Things are tend to go wrong from time to time, life is not a smooth ride. But at least we can try to have a stable mind. If one of us is having a break down or something, at least the other one can try to be on the good end. It all depends on what you value more, tearing or keeping together, spreading love or planting hate, becoming a better fellow being or just making it all about yourself.

This is a simple plea; simple but demanding, that’s why I am requesting you to at least try. With all your heart ‘n’ soul give it a try to:

  • Be humble.
  • Be kind to others without expecting anything in return.
  • Be polite with everyone irrespective of their ages, color, rank, religion or background.
  • Replace the love of power with the power of love.
  • Put a stop to violence, sexism and racism.
  • Be humans nor Gods.
  • Be respectable towards others irrespective of sex, color, rank, religion or background.
  • Fight the evil in yourself and never let it win.
  • Spread as much love as you can and as long as you can.

The list of good deeds can go on and on but just writing about is not it. Make these deeds go on and on by touching hearts ‘n’ soul of those around you.

Try to offer your understanding, love, respect, friendliness and peace to the world, even when you don’t get much in return, keep trying. One day, your good heart will touch another, and from there another and so on. The chain has to start from somewhere…

We are all humans, right? Then let’s prove it.

-aak92

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Are You Playing Your Role Right?

Published October 16, 2017 by aak92

I have been thinking about writing on this issue for quite a while but I was hesitant. I was hesitant, because of what ifs. This ‘what if’ stood in my way like a huge boulder and forced me to back off, every time. But now I feel like I can’t hold back what I want to say.

So, here it goes. Read it ’till the end then share your thoughts. Anything you want to add or minus, you are welcome.

First of all, lets see what Feminism actually means:

“The advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the EQUALITY of male and female.”

You see here, feminism means EQUALITY of genders and NOT superiority of females over male population. There was a time when feminism meant exactly that. The equality, fighting for the rights of female population, so that they are not cornered into brutality like being splashed with acid, or being raped or being used as currency for marriage and other stuff like that. But that’s not what feminism is about anymore. It has turned into a strive for something else.

I am not against speaking up and striving for the girls and women who are undergoing some savage act. Come on, I am a girl myself. I am just not in favor of where the movement is heading. For what it once stood for, was the right approach, but what it has become, is just unacceptable.

Even when we are talking equality, what kind of equality are you really aiming for? Men and women are already equal. They work side by side to make a life, only in different ways. That’s not a cruelty. Why it has to be like this, that if a man can do something, the woman has to do it too, in order to prove herself. That is not equality, that is competition. Why women are trying so hard to prove that they are better than men? Or why men think that they are better than women? When you talk about equality you can’t demand special attention.

There is no competition we are running here. Definitely NOT between men and women. Men have some responsibilities, women have others, that’s how it works. Our Lord has created a balance for our own good. He had it designed for us. When we mess with it, we topple.

These days, numerous women are so busy in competing that they have forgotten their basic responsibilities. They think that they are some sort of goddess, who do not exit to please their partners but their partners have to make them happy. Rubbish!! 

I agree that in some cases, you have to leave home, but not for a competition or because you have to prove something, but because you love your family and you want to share their burden. That is a totally different thing. When a decision is made together, it is not about superiority or some sort of competition, you do this because you are a thoughtful person.

Feminism is suppose to be about equality of genders right? Rather about creating a hate cult against men. I, myself is not in favor of this 21st century feminism because what this movement stands for today is not what I believe in.  I believe in traditional family values. I believe in boundaries, respect, care, and traditional roles.

You got to understand this, there are all sorts of people in this world, good, bad, evil, wicked etc. These qualities cannot be limited to a single gender. We can’t say that all men are like this or all women are like this. No labels please. We all have our places, if we can only find that, everything will fall into place.

You know what we should do, we should fight for rights and not superiority, spread love instead of creating a hate cult against each other. We should teach our kids, our boys and our girls as well, about respect, about boundaries. Our roles have already been given to us, play them well and then maybe we can change this world for the better.

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