Just for the Thrills of it

Doing something just for the thrills of it, can be fun. Right?

But,

If you think, it makes the wrong, right, then you need to rethink what you are doing.

Take this incident for an example: A bunch of goofballs had a dare to act upon. They were to play the role of robbers. They made it in to a house, cornered the family and asked them to put all their valuables out front. It was all just for the show, but only the goofballs knew. Everything was going smooth…or so it seemed. 

Long story short, somebody called the police, things got out of hand, two people got shot.

Fun? I think not! 

I am in favor of enjoying life, trying new things to feel alive but hurting others on the way doesn’t make any of it worthwhile. 

Give it a thought.

-aak92

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Cherish. People. Value. Yourself

Cherish those people who value you more than you do it yourself.

– aak92

Are You Playing Your Role Right?

I have been thinking about writing on this issue for quite a while but I was hesitant. I was hesitant, because of what ifs. This ‘what if’ stood in my way like a huge boulder and forced me to back off, every time. But now I feel like I can’t hold back what I want to say.

So, here it goes. Read it ’till the end then share your thoughts. Anything you want to add or minus, you are welcome.

First of all, lets see what Feminism actually means:

“The advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the EQUALITY of male and female.”

You see here, feminism means EQUALITY of genders and NOT superiority of females over male population. There was a time when feminism meant exactly that. The equality, fighting for the rights of female population, so that they are not cornered into brutality like being splashed with acid, or being raped or being used as currency for marriage and other stuff like that. But that’s not what feminism is about anymore. It has turned into a strive for something else.

I am not against speaking up and striving for the girls and women who are undergoing some savage act. Come on, I am a girl myself. I am just not in favor of where the movement is heading. For what it once stood for, was the right approach, but what it has become, is just unacceptable.

Even when we are talking equality, what kind of equality are you really aiming for? Men and women are already equal. They work side by side to make a life, only in different ways. That’s not a cruelty. Why it has to be like this, that if a man can do something, the woman has to do it too, in order to prove herself. That is not equality, that is competition. Why women are trying so hard to prove that they are better than men? Or why men think that they are better than women? When you talk about equality you can’t demand special attention.

There is no competition we are running here. Definitely NOT between men and women. Men have some responsibilities, women have others, that’s how it works. Our Lord has created a balance for our own good. He had it designed for us. When we mess with it, we topple.

These days, numerous women are so busy in competing that they have forgotten their basic responsibilities. They think that they are some sort of goddess, who do not exit to please their partners but their partners have to make them happy. Rubbish!! 

I agree that in some cases, you have to leave home, but not for a competition or because you have to prove something, but because you love your family and you want to share their burden. That is a totally different thing. When a decision is made together, it is not about superiority or some sort of competition, you do this because you are a thoughtful person.

Feminism is suppose to be about equality of genders right? Rather about creating a hate cult against men. I, myself is not in favor of this 21st century feminism because what this movement stands for today is not what I believe in.  I believe in traditional family values. I believe in boundaries, respect, care, and traditional roles.

You got to understand this, there are all sorts of people in this world, good, bad, evil, wicked etc. These qualities cannot be limited to a single gender. We can’t say that all men are like this or all women are like this. No labels please. We all have our places, if we can only find that, everything will fall into place.

You know what we should do, we should fight for rights and not superiority, spread love instead of creating a hate cult against each other. We should teach our kids, our boys and our girls as well, about respect, about boundaries. Our roles have already been given to us, play them well and then maybe we can change this world for the better.

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Where are We Heading???

Few days back, I was listening to this horrible news on T.V that really shook me. I felt some strong vibes passing through my body. And not the good or normal kind, but undoubtedly the bad ones.

This is how it goes:

A family was going in a car: father, daughter and daughter-in-law. While on the road they were stopped by some gangsters with guns in their hands. At gun point they ordered the father to give them one of the girls. They said that they have guns and that they can take away both the girls but they only want one, so choose. 

The father scarified his  own daughter. His very own little girl. Can you imagine this?! The pain! The tragedy! CAN YOU??!!

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He had no choice, because he had the responsibility of someone’s else daughter. He chose to sacrifice HIS little angel. This must have been the most difficult decision of all time.

A long time sed and that girl is still not found. The mother had a heart attack and the father committed suicide. Can you blame him?

And this is not the first incident. The are millions of such terrible incidents like these. And they are increasing at such a high rate, that it is frightening. Kidnapping, rape, murdering, torture, thrashing etc. No one is save in this world any long. Boys, girls, kids, women, men, families, no one. 

What I do not understand is what people get out of this. A little thrill, money…. WHAT?!!! And is it worth anything?

Oh please Lord! We are lost without you. Please protect us from all these monsters. 

– aak92

Still Your Baby Girl…

She is big and strong

You raised her well

But hey mom and dad

Don’t leave just yet

 

She is still your baby girl

 

She still gets scared

She still cries under her pillow

She still needs you 

She still wants you

 

She is still your baby girl

 

Her fears have grown from a boogeyman to real challenges

Her smile may not always be real

She might not say much about it

 

But she is still your baby girl

Oh, dear parents

Do not leave

Not quite yet…

– aak92

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From Baby Girl to Her Mama…

I am going to come into your lives,

And make a family of three.

 

I am gonna be a handful,

I warn you that.

 

You will be my first kiss,

                     my first love,

                    my first friend.

 

No matter what kind of jewelry you wear,

I will be the best one around your neck and in your arms.

 

You are gonna be my mama,

And I am gonna be your whole world.

– aak92

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Don’t Forget to Remember Me

She is soon gonna be on her own

A new life, A new beginning

 

With all this in the past

Making towards her future

 

One day she is might be sitting

And all the memories will be flashing before her eyes

 

Then she will give a call to her mama

Even when she is not she will say she is ok

But  before she will hang up, she will say

Mama don’t forget to tell my siblings that I miss them

Tell daddy that I am still his little girl

And last but not the least 

Don’t forget to remember me

– aak92

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Story of all girls, starting a new chapter of their lives.

Mother

She loves us with her heart and soul

She loves us without a doubt

 

She is always there when you need her

Always there to catch you when you fall

 

When you are feeling down and low

She will be there to cheer you up

 

She is the blessing of Allah Almighty

She is the Mother

 

May she always be there and

May we always be there for her (Ameen)

– aak92

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To all the mothers in the whole wide world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Together Forever

One brick

Two bricks

Three bricks

Four bricks

 

We put bricks of our love and care

                                         and friendship and tears

We made a castle out of our true feelings

 

But then a storm, so strong

                                   so horrifying

Broke it in half

 

You were stranded on one side

And I was on the other

 

Between us was a vast river

With no boats

Only a little hope to swim across

And we did

 

Ignoring the storm in our way

We swam to the center

Grabbed each other and swam back together

Because true feelings come from heart

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We will be together as long as our hearts keep on beating!!!!!!!!!!!!

– aak92

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A tribute to most precious relations.